Do not treat me personally such as for instance A bing search.
Yes I’m a transgender girl, nonetheless it does not suggest the individuals we date really respect or treat me personally like a lady. Maybe they fancy me personally, nonetheless they don’t always respect me personally, and treat me personally the means we ought to be treated. This is what If only people learn about dating me personally along with other trans girls.
Do not see me personally as a fetish or a novelty
Plenty of guys see me personally as being type of fetish. We went on a date recently, and the man stated, « Ah, i have never ever dated a trans girl before ».
He continued to express he would been wondering the way I’d tucked my « penis » away. Whenever I told him we have a vagina, he responded, « Oh my god, absolutely no way. «
Do not assume all trans ladies have actually the body that is sameor character)
We told that man you can’t simply assume all trans ladies have actually the body that is same. That’s anything like me presuming every guy I date has a huge chopper. Believe me, in my opinion, they don’t. You can’t just stereotype and work out your own assumptions. Continuer la lecture