– The “fixer” is wanting to do just about anything to greatly help the “fixee”. The fixee becomes determined by the fixer to solve their dilemmas.
– The fixee does not place work into increasing by themselves, on their own. They could make changes that are temporary will return right back. They feel insecure as a result of it. They feel more serious about by by themselves and away from defensiveness may blame the fixer with regards to their continued battles.
– The fixer gets frustrated during the not enough progress simply because they worry. They might have the fixee is not as committed to their very own improvement and locate that to be selfish. The fixer feels hurt and unappreciated being the only person setting up work to get blamed for wanting to assist. Continuer la lecture